Get Smart: Consider The Life Before You Judge and Teach Compassion To Combat Racist Bullying

Dr. Jacqueline Smart
Dr. Jacqueline Smart

“You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view … until you climb into his skin and walk around in it.” — “To Kill a Mockingbird” by Harper Lee

Have you ever wondered about the life experiences of other people who look different than you?

When we meet someone for the first time, we prejudge and lump them accordingly. We fail to take into consideration their life story. What made them into the human they have become?

Many years ago, I went to see a live performance of a Christian play at a local church. While standing in line to enter the theater, there was a man dressed in ragged clothing, dirty, holding a cup and asking for money or food. Sadly, I prejudged that man. Sitting in the theater happily watching the play, a man appeared on stage wearing ragged clothing and he was filthy dirty. As I looked closer, I realized that was the same man standing outside of the theater begging for food. He played the role of Jesus.

We never know what people have had to deal with through their life’s journey. Pain doesn’t always show through the nicely dressed person wearing a big smile.

Some of us may prejudge, solely because of outer appearances. Do we clutch our belongings and double-lock our car doors when we see certain people walking our directions? Are we afraid to give eye contact and to say hello to strangers?

Why do so many young males commit crimes and die from suicide? What led them to give up and feel their lives are meaningless? Have we played a role in their actions? We must consider the story of others, even more so, in this topsy-turvy world that we live in today. So, before you look down your beautiful nose at someone else, criticize them or have harsh thoughts and words, stop and think. We should have empathy and show compassion and acceptance of others who look different than us.

Consider these definitions: Empathy: the action of understanding, being aware of and being sensitive to the feelings, thoughts and experiences of another of either the past or present without having the feelings, thoughts and experiences fully communicated in an objectively explicit manner. Compassion: sympathetic pity and concern for the sufferings or misfortunes of others.

Acceptance: the action of consenting to receive or undertake something offered.

Jacqueline Y. Smart is a middle school teacher and has been employed with the Savannah Chatham school system since 2000. She has earned her Doctor of Education in Educational Leadership from Cambridge College School of Education. She is the author of “What Makes A Bully?” Send your questions and comments to or

You are loved! God Bless

Dr. Jacqueline Y. Smart


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1 thought on “Get Smart: Consider The Life Before You Judge and Teach Compassion To Combat Racist Bullying”

  1. Thank you for this cautionary story. Only God judges justly, because only he knows the hearts of men. We, not knowing the righteous judgment of God, judge a person by its looks, apparently, and therefore blame others unfairly.

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